The One Detail Families Forget During Senior Transitions

The Hidden Checklist: What Actually Falls Through the Cracks?

It’s not just about selling the home. It’s about what happens after the house is empty.

Dale highlights several commonly overlooked—but critical—tasks:

Utilities and Services
This goes beyond PG&E. Have you canceled the gardener, pest control, internet, and cable?

Subscriptions
Auto-pays for magazines, newspapers, and streaming services often continue unnoticed.

Medical Logistics
In one Castro Valley case, a buyer discovered piles of sensitive medical mail during a final walkthrough because Medicare documents hadn’t been redirected—creating a serious privacy issue.

Home Security
If the home is vacant, are lights on timers? Is the alarm set? Is someone checking the property weekly to prevent theft or vandalism?

The Solution: Assign a “House Captain”

The most practical—and effective—tip from this episode is also the simplest: assign a House Captain.

This is one designated person responsible for everything related to the physical house after your parent moves out. It doesn’t have to be you. It can be a sibling or trusted relative—but it must be one specific person.

The House Captain handles:

• Collecting and forwarding mail

• Coordinating clean-outs

• Answering questions from real estate agents

• Ensuring the fridge is cleared and doors are locked

This single step reduces confusion and eliminates the “I thought you were doing that” arguments that can fracture families during stressful transitions.

You Don’t Have to Do It Alone

Whether you’re in Alameda, Napa, or San Francisco, the emotional toll of moving a parent is real.

Adult children often feel guilt or shame when tasks are missed, but the truth is simple: no one has the mental bandwidth to remember everything during a major life transition.

Planning ahead makes a significant difference. Dale recommends using a Senior Transition Checklist that covers the full 360 degrees of the move—from pre-move planning to post-move logistics.

This isn’t just about real estate. It’s about peace of mind.

Ready to Simplify the Process?

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by downsizing, selling, or managing your parent’s move, don’t wait until things spiral.

Schedule a FREE consultation at:
www.simplifyseniortransitions.com

We can walk through the entire plan together—whether you’re months away or already mid-move.

For more expert guidance, listen to the full episode of the Simplify Senior Transitions Podcast, or connect with Dale on Instagram @soldbydale for daily tips and updates.

P.S. Got news or an amazing story to share? Email dale.corpus@exprealty.com and you might be featured in an upcoming episode.
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